Culture Shock and How to Deal With It

[vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][vc_column_text]Living abroad is a huge and, hopefully, exciting life change. Travel gives us the opportunity to expand our world view, meet new people from other cultures, and change our beliefs. If you’ve moved here to Sweden from somewhere else, you already know that. However, just because you’ve chosen to move and might be excited doesn’t mean you won’t face difficulties. Leaving your home country may leave you feeling lost and lonely, unsure of your place in the world, or feeling like you’re struggling to fit in.
[/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=”What Is This?” font_container=”tag:h4|text_align:center”][vc_column_text]These feelings could be attributed to “culture shock,” and they’re a normal part of living somewhere new. Culture shock might set in right away, or sneak up on you by setting in months after your arrival. Yes, you could be feeling confidently settled in and still experience it. Luckily, we are here to help you navigate this frustrating and sometimes frightening situation. [/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][heading]The Phases of Culture Shock

[/heading][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][vc_column_text]Culture shock has four phases- honeymoon, frustration, adjustment, and acceptance. Everyone experiences these phases differently, and at different times. If you have moved with other family members, you could have very different emotional experiences as you adjust.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][heading]The Honeymoon

[/heading][vc_column_text]The first phase, the “honeymoon,” occurs when you have just arrived and feel positive and excited about your new home, the new language, new food and people. If you’re on a short trip, you may never leave this phase. However, as these new experiences begin to be more commonplace, the excitement may fade. This leaves you vulnerable to stage two. [/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][heading]Frustration

[/heading][vc_column_text]After the honeymoon comes frustration. This is the most difficult aspect of culture shock. You might feel very tired at the prospect of tackling even small tasks; after all, it’s wearisome to do the grocery shopping when you aren’t sure what the signs and products say or don’t understand the habits of people around you. Small setbacks may feel magnified during this time, and you might experience loneliness or a longing to go back to familiar settings.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][vc_custom_heading text=”Coping Effectively” font_container=”tag:h4|text_align:center”][vc_column_text]These experiences are opportunities to practice a bit of self-care, give yourself a little quiet time, and reflect on what is was that frustrated you. Was it a random small mistake, such as misplacing something? Or was it an event you can exercise some control over, like learning what the signs at your local shops say so that the next time you go out, you can feel a little more in control of your day?[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][heading]Adjustment

[/heading][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][vc_column_text]As you become more comfortable in your new home and begin figuring out the unfamiliar aspects of life, frustration will fade and be replaced by “adjustment.” Everything will begin to become easier- getting around, accessing resources, and navigating new relationships will be less of a strain. Perhaps by this time you will be able to speak, or at least understand, some of the local language.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][heading]Acceptance

[/heading][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][vc_column_text]The final stage of culture shock is acceptance. This does’t mean that you understand every single aspect of your new life, and it is’t really a passive behavior. It might take months or even years to get there, but in the acceptance stage, you will be able to make peace with the differences. You can have an amazing experience in your new home without totally understanding it, and you likely have enough knowledge to navigate most situations with ease.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][vc_column_text]

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